Who Gets Christmas Morning? Navigating Holiday Custody Smoothly

For many separated or divorced parents, few questions bring as much tension as “Who gets Christmas morning with the kids?” Emotions run high during the holidays, and without a clear parenting plan, scheduling disagreements can quickly escalate. Understanding how Colorado courts view holiday parenting time—and knowing your options—can help you keep the season joyful, not stressful.

At Thomas and Associates, we know how important holiday time is for families. Here’s what parents should understand as they navigate Christmas custody arrangements.

How Colorado Courts Approach Holiday Parenting Time

In Colorado, holiday parenting time is considered special and often overrides regular weekly schedules. Courts prioritize arrangements that support the child’s stability and emotional well-being. Most parenting plans include holiday schedules that rotate or balance major celebrations between parents.

Common Christmas custody arrangements include:

✔ Alternating Christmas Day Each Year

One parent gets Christmas Eve and Christmas morning in even-numbered years, the other gets them in odd-numbered years. This is the most common structure because it’s simple, equal, and predictable.

✔ Splitting Christmas Eve and Christmas Day

Some families prefer splitting the holiday each year—for example:

• Parent A has the child from Dec. 24 at noon to Dec. 25 at noon

   

   

• Parent B has Dec. 25 at noon through the evening

   

   

This allows the child to spend part of Christmas with both families, though it may require more driving or coordination.

✔ Celebrating Twice at Different Times

For younger children, or families who live far apart, some parents choose to celebrate “Christmas morning” on different dates. This removes the pressure of the actual calendar date and lets each household maintain meaningful traditions.

✔ Tailored Plans for Unique Schedules

For blended families, religious observances, travel plans, or work-related conflicts (such as military service or emergency-response schedules), a customized plan may be necessary. Colorado courts encourage parents to agree on a plan that fits their realities whenever possible.

Tips for Making Holiday Custody Go Smoothly

Start Planning Early

Discuss the holiday schedule weeks—if not months—in advance. This reduces conflict and helps avoid last-minute disputes.

Put the Child First

Ask what arrangement best supports your child’s comfort and emotional needs. Children benefit from stability and from feeling like the holiday isn’t a battle.

Honor Each Parent’s Traditions

If both households celebrate differently, try to preserve those traditions. Kids thrive when both parts of their family life feel respected.

Be Flexible When Possible

Sometimes weather, illness, or travel issues require rethinking the plan. Flexibility can go a long way in maintaining peace.

Follow the Written Parenting Plan

If a parenting plan already exists, stick to it—even if this year’s schedule feels inconvenient. Courts take compliance seriously.

When You Need to Modify Holiday Custody

Life changes, and sometimes parenting plans need updates. You may need to modify your holiday child custody arrangement if:

• Your work schedule has changed

   

   

• You moved farther from the other parent

   

   

• The child’s holiday needs have evolved

   

   

• There are safety, sobriety, or travel concerns

   

   

• One parent consistently violates the plan

   

   

If both parents agree, adjustments can be made without returning to court. But when issues become recurring or contentious, you may need legal guidance.

That’s where Thomas and Associates can help protect your rights and ensure your child’s well-being remains the priority.

Co-Parenting Strategies for a Merry Christmas

To reduce stress and keep the holidays magical for your kids, consider:

• Sharing gift lists to avoid duplicates

   

   

• Agreeing on budgets for major gifts

   

   

• Allowing phone or video calls during holiday time with the other parent

   

   

• Keeping transitions warm and positive

   

   

• Focusing on presence, not presents

   

   

Remember: children often mirror the emotions they observe. When parents handle the holidays calmly and cooperatively, kids feel secure.

Get Holiday Custody Help From Thomas and Associates

Holiday custody disputes can be emotionally draining, especially when Christmas morning is on the line. With the right planning—and the right legal support—you can create a holiday schedule that works for everyone.

Thomas and Associates is here to guide you through creating, modifying, or enforcing holiday parenting plans so your family can enjoy a peaceful season.

Need help before the holidays? Contact us at Thomas and Associates today — your next step toward a smoother Christmas starts here.